Be still and listen

I want to share a dream he Lord gave me. I had a friend of mine who wanted to get me a .44 magnum hand gun. He was a friend I knew for quite a long time. He took the .44 magnum he had and put it in his mouth and shot himself in the head 3 times. I was very rattled. Blood was flowing from his mouth and he was still alive after this.
This is what the Lord told me:
My friend I knew for a long time had a very defiant personality. (If you kicked him in the shin he would break your leg). He wanted me to have a .44 magnum as well. In real life I had a problem I had with a person I worked with at my present employer. I wanted to tell her off. The Lord was saying to tell this person off with my mouth was the same as shooting myself in the head through my mouth. He also told me the 3 shots were the mind, will and the emotion. This was a firm warning He gave me, and I took it to heart. The person at work does not like me because I am a believer in Christ and she is an atheist. Please remember her in your prayers.